Estate planning: “I’m dead. What do I care?”

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Christina Chalimova, LLB, CFP®, Senior Wealth Consultant

“I’m dead. What do I care?” is a sentiment I often hear when I introduce the topic of estate planning. Some even say they don’t need a Will. But when I ask if they're comfortable with the law governing how their wealth will be distributed upon death, they usually lean forward and respond with, “How would it be distributed?"

Why do some people avoid estate planning?

Some people are simply not ready to think about their estate plan. They may tell themselves they'll get to it eventually or that it's unnecessary to have a plan in place. This is understandable — planning for a world without us can be emotional, stressful and daunting.

Others make assumptions about the potential outcomes of having no estate plan. These conclusions are often unrealistic and risky. For instance, if you don’t have a Will:

  • You could be wrong if you assume that everything will automatically go to your surviving spouse.
  • You may also be wrong if you assume that your common law partner will be entitled to an inheritance from your estate.
  • You are likely wrong if you assume that assets inherited by your surviving spouse will automatically flow to your children upon your spouse's passing.
  • You are definitely wrong if you assume your children will only receive their inheritance when you think they are mature enough to handle it.

And if you're reading this and assume you've got it all covered because you have a Will, whether it's a handwritten or a lawyer-drafted one from many years ago, you might also be wrong. Over the years, things may have changed and what was once a good estate plan, may no longer meet the needs of loved ones in case anything happens to you.

Make and stay on top of your estate plan

Making assumptions and pushing off your estate planning can lead to unexpected consequences. An appropriate analogy might be homeowners who don't update their insurance coverage every few years to reflect current costs and may later find themselves unprepared when an unforeseen incident occurs. Just as adequate insurance may protect you against unexpected events, a proper estate plan can help safeguard your wishes upon death and provide you with some confidence knowing your concerns are accounted for. I understand that creating or updating an estate plan is easier said than done. However, it's important to ensure that "I'll do it later" doesn't turn into "never." Taking care of your estate plan now can offer you confidence, helping to ensure your loved ones are cared for and your wishes are respected. Let’s explore how you can make that happen.

Make a Will

If you do not have a Will or your Will is outdated, your loved ones are ultimately the ones who will be faced with any repercussions, which can be far more challenging than a trip to a lawyer's office. Grief is arguably one of the most difficult and overwhelming life experiences. During a time meant for reflecting, mourning, and healing, the last thing anyone wants is to navigate a labyrinth of legal challenges, frustration and possibly rifts between family members.

Dying without a Will can considerably increase the emotional burden on loved ones during a time of grief. Without clear instructions, they are often left navigating the complexities of intestacy rules, which determine how your estate will be distributed. If you do not have a voice in who gets what, it might cause confusion, inadequate support for those who need it most and even strain relationships.

Keep your Will up to date

If you do have a Will, it’s crucial to keep it up to date. Just as your life, family, dynamics, assets, and the world around us changes, so should your Will. If your Will does not reflect your last wishes, it could lead to misunderstanding, insufficient support, and impact family relationships.

If you're ready to take control of your legacy, let's explore some things you should consider when reviewing your Will or executing a first one.

What are intestacy rules?

Intestacy rules are legal provisions that govern how an estate is distributed if a person dies without a valid Will. Intestacy rules are designed to provide a default method of distributing assets when no personal instructions in a valid Will exist. These rules vary by jurisdiction but generally follow a predetermined order of distribution, prioritizing close family members like spouses and children.

Estate planning considerations

Estate planning is about making thoughtful decisions to ensure your wishes are honored and your loved ones are supported. By carefully considering various aspects of your wishes, you can create an estate plan that provides clarity, minimizes conflict, and protects your legacy. Here are some things to consider when making an estate plan:

Bring your estate plan to life with a family meeting

Although having a Will serves as a roadmap to guide your family once you're gone, you may consider a family meeting to help bring your estate plan on paper to life. Remember, money always transfers with a message. If you are not explicit, you leave your family to determine that message once you're gone.

Open communication with your family can, amongst other things, help you explain the reasons behind your decisions, answer questions to remove any room for misinterpretation as well as celebrate and reinforce your family values. Healthy communication and transparency may provide an opportunity to address potential discord or concerns early on and help avoid future disagreements and confusion about your intentions.

Bringing the family together to discuss your wishes can also help you equip your family with the knowledge and tools they will need to steward your family wealth. For instance, a child who's been named executor may have questions on the structures you've implemented and what responsibilities lie ahead. Whereas another child may want to understand what purposes a testamentary trust serves. You may also discover that you have made incorrect assumptions about a loved one's needs or desire to inherit a specific asset. If you are not ready to reveal every detail of your finances or estate plan, there is not a one-size-fits-all approach to family meetings, and you can explore several different approaches.

Getting started on an estate plan

An estate plan is an integral part of your comprehensive financial plan. Decisions surrounding your estate plan can be complex, which is why we believe caring about your plan and taking a team approach is best. At Edward Jones, our financial advisors in partnership with our Client Consultation Group – a team of highly specialized and accredited financial planners, tax, insurance, legacy and estate professionals – can help simplify your complex financial needs. Together, they take a personal approach to help guide you through your estate goals, potential implications, and tradeoffs to create a strategy that meets your unique goals.

Important information :

Edward Jones, its employees and financial advisors are not estate planners and cannot provide tax or legal advice. You should consult your estate-planning attorney or qualified tax advisor regarding your situation.

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